Guilty Pleasure or just bad taste? You tell me. I have a ridiculously large amount of “one hit wonders” in my iTunes library. I use the term “one hit wonder” loosely. I define “one hit wonder” not only as that one popular song an artist had and then disappeared, but that song an artist had that was so unlike their typical music it really stood out. Some of them…okay maybe a lot of them, most people have never heard of. […]
After reading a compelling blog about the 22 Habits of Unhappy People, the two of us spent the better part of our daily video chat talking about our own bad habits. I said, “You know, I think you could’ve been right more than 25 years ago….I think I might be happy and I’m just getting in my own way. Could it really be as easy as exchanging these bad “unhealthy” habits with the good “healthy” habits? Would we notice a […]
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Bad Habit #22 ~ Wanting More Money It’s been said that money is the root of all evil. It’s not the money that’s evil…it’s the people who will do anything to get it. And once they get it…do the toys they buy make them any happier? According to Forbes article “How Much Money Do You Really Need to be Happy?”, that amount is $75,000. Unfortunately, the end result is that some people want more money than is necessary to live […]
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Remember the song from Calloway…back in the late 80′s… I want money lots and lots of money I want the pie in the sky I want money lots and lots of money So don’t be asking me why I wanna be rich oh Most people think that if they had more money, their happiness would increase accordingly. Unfortunately, much like “Waiting for the future”, the illusion that more money will solve all your problems and make you happy is nothing […]
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Bad Habit #21 ~ Letting Strangers Affect Your Mood Whether you’re upset at the terrible waiter, or fuming at the rude sales clerk, or barely tolerating the impossible customer, the take away is that you’re letting strangers affect your mood. How is it possible that a complete stranger and impact – and change – our entire outlook? We could be having a bad day and somebody just pushes us over the edge. It can be that we think we deserve respect […]
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So many things can influence our mood. Music. Food. Weather. Color. Strangers. How many times have you been in a great mood and along comes someone you’ve never met – they say or do something and BAM…suddenly there’s a dark cloud and you’re in a funk. The dark cloud, of course, is metaphorical and stands for the any number of things that influence our moods. Today we’re talking about Strangers and just like the weather, we have no control over […]
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Bad Habit #20 ~ Worrying About What Others Might Think You’ll worry less about what people think about you when you realize how seldom they do” (David Foster Wallace). In an article title 10 Reason to stop Worrying About What Other People Think, the author points out that this is a very profound statement, but it can be taken one of two ways: that either a) people don’t think about you or your shortcomings as much as you think they […]
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- You head out the door in a fabulous emerald green dress that you bought for tonights special occasion. As you step onto the street, a woman passing by give you a double-take. You wonder why she didn’t like what you had on. – You went into law because that had been the family business for years. You feel trapped in the family law firm, and would have preferred to be an engineer. You’re in the business because it’s family […]
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Bad Habit #19 ~ Lacking Goals Studies have shown that people with depression make more generalized goals in their lives, but the question that remains is whether the depression came first, or was triggered by the lack of setting and achieving goals. Christopher Bergland in his article “Generalized Goals Linked to Depression,“ cites a new study conducted by Dr. Joann Dickson. Bergland explains, “Setting specific goals and realizing them triggers an electro-chemical chain reaction in your brain that makes you feel rewarded which stimulates happiness, motivation, […]
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Have you ever completed something you set out to do? Of course you have, it felt good… didn’t it? It doesn’t have to be a huge feat you’re accomplishing to get that satisfying feeling…it’s not necessary to run a marathon, sometimes all it takes is getting your junk drawer in the kitchen cleaned out and organized. One thing is for certain, that accomplished feeling doesn’t come to us unless we have set up some goals first. Goal setting is a […]
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